Hi Herfried,
Although replying to yourself, I assume that you mean me.
Thank you. I have my two email addresses mixed up and the result certainly
doesn't work.
The ISP one (don't use) is (e-mail address removed) and the web-based is...
No, on second thoughts, I'll leave it for a few days. You are still very
raw from last night.
You have a desperate need to have the last word. This was shown by the
fact that you kept on posting rather than simply stopping and letting it
wither (as Steve suggests now). That is why your accusations of me being a
spammer are so ridiculous, LOL.
I thwarted your desire to have the last word which was very cruel of me,
I'm sure.
In a discussion with an adult I will behave as an adult. In a brawl with a
child (a real child) I will behave in a parental manner. With adult-sized
children (that's you) I will behave equally childishly.
The difference is that yours is not controlled while mine is. I get fun
out it that way but you find yours distressing. Yours is deadly serious, mine
is serious but playful.
At the moment I expect nothing more than emotion from you. I don't need to
hear this, Herfried, I know how you feel. You're having a very unpleasant
weekend so far and.seeing my name in posts, let alone reading my words is very
provoking. You think I've been stupid, uncaring (of yourself and others),
childish, ignorant, and a whole host of other words that can be applied to
both of us.
As I stated earlier, I am aware of this in me - it was my choice. You,
however, have been mostly ignorant of how reactive you are, driven by needs of
which you are mostly unaware, and are certainly blind to your own behaviour.
You think that you are purely in the right, and that I'm the evil one.
You can have my email address in a few days. If you had sent me an email
last night, I'm afraid I would have deleted it. Any words that you have for me
at the moment would make a lot of sense from an emotional perspective but
little enough otherwise. (This is indicated by you 'correcting' me after
giving some perfectly sound advice to Joe).
Strangely enough, and despite appearances to the contrary, this discussion
through all its twists, has been conducted, in part, as lessons for you. I
hope you learn something about <yourself> from this is due course. I do
actually believe that this will be the case and that you will be stronger for
it. [But not yet!!]. My congratulations if you've actually been able to read
this far. ;-)
Regards,
Fergus
I'm aware that you will not receive these words with any accuracy. Perhaps
later (in a few weeks) we can discuss this period in a different manner.