Semolina Pilchard said:
I've made an argument from definition in my reply to Maria Luisa,
Roger. It seems to me that you are now sliding from semantics to a
legalistic argument.
Even if I were to accept that there is merit in what you say - and to
a degree I do - it does not alter the fact that the proper use - not
some notional misunderstanding - of "acquire" is exactly what's
required. There isn't a better alternative, only a poorer one.
I remember when I started to learn english. I was maybe 10, or so.
On the way to school I practised the funny sounds my mouth had to make,
especially the very strange w-sound. In Sweden we don't have that kind of
gliding between several wowel sounds, "oeoooaaanderful" except in the
southernmost part of the country, which was occupied by the danes for
hundreds of years.
Over the years I have come to realize that english is a language made up
of expressions, so it is no use to translate from swedish by substituting
every word with an english equivalent. Instead I have to search my memory
for sentences I have heard in songs, movies, books and television, when
somebody has said some sentence I can use to convey the meaning and
feeling I want to express.
That is why it takes a lifetime to learn english. It takes a long time to
collect enough expressions to be able to express all kinds of meanings
and ways to approach a certain situation.
There are many ways to say the same thing, and it is a matter of taste
and feeling which expression you choose to use at the moment.
So I dont think you can talk about any certain word as being THE correct
word in any situation. There are hundreds of ways to approach a certain
situation, and thousands of popular expressions to choose from in those
approaches.
The globally known tv show "Spin City" is a good illustration to what I
mean with "hundreds of ways to approach a situation".
When you want something done, or you have to formulate a message, it is
not primarily a question of which word is the correct one.
First you need to decide how to approach the situation. With a big smile
and a hug, or like a lawyer, carefully choosing a wording that will not
get you into trouble, or pretend that its raining, trying to find a dry
place and looking for some human warmth together with other people, or
jumping on other people with a "I know better than you" attitude, or
trying to find a common goal, choosing ways to create sympathy and an
atmosphere of working together on a common basis, or acknowledge, ignore,
deny, change the subject, etc..
Choosing what expressions and what words to use comes after you have
decided on what approach to use.
After you have found suitable expressions and formulated a message it is
time to check the result for expressions and words which could provoke a
reaction you do not intend, and change those expressions and words into
something which cannot create that kind of reaction.