Fanman_UK said:
If you are not prepared
to ask about the name/domain personally, use an intermediary.
If existing name is definitely not available, then that will be the
time to discuss alternatives.
Genna is reading what is happening here, and so far she has not made any
attempt to solve the problems which is really working.
There is no need for any email questions to her, by anybody, as this
situation is a question in itself.
I cannot blame Genna and SOS for sitting back on this one, I would do
the same in their position.
I didn't blame Genna from the beginning, but now I am beginning to see
why she is difficult to work with.
She jumped in and started to argue about who was right and wrong in the
past immediately when Susan came back, which was very bad timing.
Genna has been confrontative and argumentative when she could have been
supportive and understanding. That is the problem.
She demands a certain kind of mindset instead of accepting a more human
approach. Genna can only work with people who have very thick skin on
their noses, not with people who are not tough enough according to her
standards.
At the bottom of this is a cultural problem. Genna stands for the
culture which demands that you must be able to take a punch and give a
punch, and you must be able to stand up for yourself in a certain way.
She can help/force Susan get tougher, but she cannot cooperate with her
as long as she is like Susan is and wants to continue to be.
This is a very common problem everywhere in our society.
People who are very tough are very eager to help/force others to become
tougher, but refuse to cooperate with people who are not up to their own
standards of toughness.
The whole society, and especially the media channels, is a big boot camp
with constant training in violence and concentration, to force everybody
to become very tough and confrontational.
Bob Marley: Get up, stand up, stand up for your rights..
Jeopardy: Learn to think twice..
Police series and trauma surgery programs: Learn to live with extreme
levels of violence and high concentration.
People like Genna can stand up for themselves, but they are not really
happy and do not have the inspiration to do a job like Susan can.
Men are not happy, they need women to be happy.
Women need children or pets to be happy, but they need men to feel safe.
We all need somebody who is nicer and more like children to be happy,
but we make these children older and tougher as we socialize with them.
We are all stretched between two poles in our lives. We need to become
tougher to feel strong and fit into a tough world, but we need to relax
and become open like children to feel well with ourselves.
We should learn to cooperate with softer and nicer people without
forcing them to become tougher and stronger.