Ciri, you certainly don't "ramble" it's really enjoyable to read your views and experiences.
I echo your feelings regarding caged birds
(what an understanding mother you had!) and it makes me feel sad to see them on sale in pet stores - although as a child, we too kept a budgie, who lived for 9 years. Some of the animal books I've enjoyed over the years, were those written by Gerald Durrell (the conservationist) and James Herriot (vet) also Joyce Fussey and Doreen Tovey who wrote entertainingly about the animals they kept/lived with. There were more, but I have since forgotten the names of their authors, as it has been a while since I read them.
Wow Ciri, no wonder you became disillusioned about psychology when they were giving you such biassed advice.
That is pretty creepy, when you consider that it is often the opinions of such people, which can help decide upon someone's future. I'm not sure if you would agree, but my own feeling is that some folk have a "natural" aptitude for understanding and "reading" others (guess I am partly talking about body-language here
) It obviously helps if one can understand the "language" and interpret the signs of course. I have been fascinated by some of the books of Dr Desmond Morris (The Naked Ape; Manwatching; The Human Zoo; etc., etc.) His Cat and Dog Watching books were also very interesting. (We currently live with three cats
)
Glad to hear that the gosling is thriving, sounds like you are doing such a good job in catering to all his needs.
He must look so cute toddling around with you. Can you stand a daft suggestion? If you feel that he might be lonely, do you think it would help to try putting a bit of soft blanket into his box, with a small transistor radio (if you have one small enough) rolled up inside it, playing very softly? I guess you'd need to see how he responded to a talk station, or whether he preferred something musical
That tiny bit of noise, might just help to fill-in for the sound of his mum's heartbeat, etc. (.... Ok, I just know that people reading this will now be phoning for the men in white coats to come and take me away
...but hey, it might just work.