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I feel I have to try and carry on, as Sandra would have wished me to do so.

I don’t know what else to say, I will just say Thanks to you all.
As always Viv.
 
It's going to be a long difficult time for you but we are all here for you.
 
We're all still thinking of you Viv, and it's good to have you back :)
 
Welcome back Viv, thinking of you and yours. You are always so kind and thoughtful to others so let us look after you for a while.

With love

Gabriella xx
 
Stay strong Viv, Good to see you round. :)
 
I will never get over loosing Sandra.

Difficult is an understatement, strong I must be for Sandra’s sake, I am really proud of you guys and girls I mean REALLY proud of you. Your support has been as solid as a rock to me and I will never forget that.
 
Viv, you know and I know that you'll never get over Sandie's death.

If ever you did, completely, you'd likely be less than human.

All that will happen is that with time, the hurt will get less.

I grieve for you, I truly do, all that I wanted to say, I've said already so I'll just say that it's good to see you posting again :)

Stay strong my friend.
 
Stay strong my friend and take care of your great wife :thumb:
 
floppybootstomp said:
Viv, you know and I know that you'll never get over Sandie's death.

If ever you did, completely, you'd likely be less than human.

All that will happen is that with time, the hurt will get less.

I grieve for you, I truly do, all that I wanted to say, I've said already so I'll just say that it's good to see you posting again :)

Stay strong my friend.
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You are a true friend FBS and so correct:)
 
Itsme -

I know theres no right thing to say at a time like this, but as the others said, stay strong and i really am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong but the grieving process is also equally important so don't bottle anything up. I know your world must be completely upside down and inside out at the moment so i/we appreciate you coming on here to let us know how you are doing. Take care of yourself, and the Mrs... and i send my regards to you all.

Christopher.
 
There are some very special people here on this forum
& you are one of them Viv
Helping you, in whatever way that we can is not a hardship.
The confusion & pain you are going through is every parent's worst nightmare.
It is not something that you ever get over,
But the pain & the grief will lessen over time
& you will be able to treasure the happy memories, without the pain.
Stay strong. To love & be loved is one of life's greatest gifts
& Sandie will always be there in your heart,
Loving you, wrapped in your love.
And we are here, whenever you need us.
 
christopherpostill said:
Itsme -

I know theres no right thing to say at a time like this, but as the others said, stay strong and i really am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong but the grieving process is also equally important so don't bottle anything up. I know your world must be completely upside down and inside out at the moment so i/we appreciate you coming on here to let us know how you are doing. Take care of yourself, and the Mrs... and i send my regards to you all.

Christopher.
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Thank you for the kind words CP:)
 
cirianz said:
There are some very special people here on this forum
& you are one of them Viv
Helping you, in whatever way that we can is not a hardship.
The confusion & pain you are going through is every parent's worst nightmare.
It is not something that you ever get over,
But the pain & the grief will lessen over time
& you will be able to treasure the happy memories, without the pain.
Stay strong. To love & be loved is one of life's greatest gifts
& Sandie will always be there in your heart,
Loving you, wrapped in your love.
And we are here, whenever you need us.
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"cirianz"Your words are greatly appreciated;
"My love for and memories of Sandra will remain with me forever"
 
If you have truly loved someone they never go away . They are in your heart forever .
Look to the living and care and comfort and be strong for those around you whom you love .
My deepest sympathy for your loss .

[font=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif]Your pain is the breaking of the shell
that encloses your understanding.

Even as the stone of the fruit must break,that its
heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain.

And could you keep your heart in wonder
at the daily miracles of your life, your pain
would not seem less wondrous than your joy;

And you would accept the seasons of your
heart, even as you have always accepted
the seasons that pass over your fields.

And you would watch with serenity
through the winters of your grief.

Much of your pain is self-chosen.

It is the bitter potion by which the
physician within you heals your sick self.

Therefore trust the physician, and drink
his remedy in silence and tranquillity:

For his hand, though heavy and hard, is guided
by the tender hand of the Unseen,
And the cup he brings, though it burn your lips,
has been fashioned of the clay which the Potter
has moistened with His own sacred tears.


- Kahlil Gibran
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You and Yours suffered a devastating loss and although you must still be feeling terribly raw, it is really good to see you back in PCR again:nod: You have shown such strength and courage throughout. Warmest regards to yourself and Mrs Itsme :)
 
Abarbarian= If you have truly loved someone they never go away . They are in your heart forever .
Look to the living and care and comfort and be strong for those around you whom you love .
My deepest sympathy for your loss .
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Very true;
 
Taffycat said:
You and Yours suffered a devastating loss and although you must still be feeling terribly raw, it is really good to see you back in PCR again
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You have shown such strength and courage throughout. Warmest regards to yourself and Mrs Itsme :)
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Always a kind word Taffycat :) xxxx
 
Good to see you mate

Viv

Words are not my best subject, so I won't subject you to any of my poems.

It is good to see you back, and both our thoughts continue to be with you and the family back in the 'motherland' ;)

The previous offer remains open for as long as you may want it.

Take care my friend

Dave
 
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