Karen,
I'm not trying to be out of line in anyway but rather maybe say something
from an encouraging standpoint.
I totally disagree with you statement of this not being a forum to get
help. I'm not a programmer either. My family and I have a small medical
equipment business and was in need of a database. Too small to afford to
buy a custom designed database so I had to teach myself. In the process of
doing this, I have found forums and newsgroups to be the single best
learning experience, even above the books I have purchased.
The people who respond are VERY help and all are very patient. I have seen
the same names for years now, answers questions and staying with someone
until they get it. (Including Mr. Dinh who sincerely was helping you).
With that being said, they are not going to do for you. One of the biggest
reason being you won't learn it. They help, they point you in the right
direction and then from there you learn it. You get stuck, post a question
and they get you unstuck.
I have recently found this forum and recognize that some of the most well
known names in MS Access are answering questions here. (I'm not going to
mention who they are for fear of leaving someone out but the list is very
long and these folks have been answering questions on multiple forums for
many years. They know who they are and for folks who are in the same boat
as me, we know who they are also.) I posted because I don't know if you
meant your statement to come across strong but I took it as a strong
statement and while most of the MVP's may not defend themselves, I wanted
to step in and call a "foul" cause my experience has been nothing like your
statement.