chipshop said:
I'm about to connect my children's computer to the Internet.
At the risk of sounding like a cave dwelling reactionary:
1) Your kids should not have thier "own" computer.
2) If you have several computers, keep them ALL in "public" areas of the
house (living room, family room, kitchen.)
3) Consider only permitting e-mail on ONE computer which would ONLY be
used by the parents. Messages in/out can be switched via a cheap home
network (the WIRE is the most expensive component.) (There might be
freeware which makes this easier but Outlook Express can be used to read and
generate e-mail. To send you do a "Save As" and put it in a shared folder.
To receive you just click on the mailed saved.)
4) If you DO let your kids sent/receive e-mail directly via their own
e-mail addresses, have them make their e-mail address difficult to guess
(e.g.: (e-mail address removed) rather than (e-mail address removed)) They will
eventually get on spam lists a which time you should make them change user
names.
5) There is NOTHING unreasonable in requiring kids to have different rules
than the adults. I have had the same e-mail address for 6 years and get
LOTS and LOTS of junk e-mail but I have no intention of changing my address.
I don't use "chat" rooms and I don't expect my kids to either. If they
want to "chat" they can use the telephone when I am off-line.
I'd like to know which browser (preferably freeware) and other software
I can use to block 'undesirable' content.
I use the above rules and my kids haven't gotten "surprised" just by using
IE on an XP machine. The biggest "risk" is when they use a search engine.
Having dad or mom wandering about keeps them from clicking on a
"questionable" link.