You can't remove your contact from someone else's contact list. But you can
"block" the user from seeing your online/offline status by adding the user
to the Block List.
Tools > Options > Privacy
There, add the user in the block list and they will not be able to see your
online/offline status.
Messenger was actually designed so you can't do what you're describing here. Once you're on
someone's list, you're stuck there until they delete you.
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