I doubt there's a single decent source with all of this stuff. As you
say, it's kind of hunt and peck until you figure out things. I learned
most of what I know on the subject through (A) playing and trying to get
things to work, and (B) going to many web sites in search of help.
I've written a FAQ on Excel Charting:
http://pubs.logicalexpressions.com/Pub0009/LPMArticle.asp?ID=209
and I have an extensive web site devoted mostly to the topic, including
a half-completed tutorial on charting:
http://www.geocities.com/jonpeltier/Excel/Charts/index.html
Some other decent sites (lifted from the links at the end of the FAQ):
http://tushar-mehta.com
Tushar Mehta's web site, which includes charting content and much more.
http://j-walk.com
Web site of John Walkenbach, author of myriad Excel books, including the
only book available on Excel Charts; also the author of Chart Tools, a
very useful add-in.
http://appspro.com
Site of Excel MVP Rob Bovey, where you'll find the indispensable Chart
Labeler add-in.
http://bmsltd.co.uk/Excel/Default.htm
Stephen Bullen's web site, which features a section on advanced charting
techniques.
http://andypope.info/charts.htm
Web site of Andy Pope, who has developed some creative charting solutions.
http://edferrero.m6.net/Charting.html
Ed Ferrero's charting examples.
http://www.prodomosua.it/ppage02.html
Fernando Cinquegrani's web site, containing many downloadable utilities
(it's in Italian, but worth it for the clever techniques he's implemented).
- Jon