"* * Chas" to "Beauregard T. Shagnasty":
Good link, thanks for the response.
Well, it may have seemed good to you, BUT it was not actually very helpful, as
it hasn't helped you actually understand what is going on...
I've just been attributing the problem to faulty servers that let
misaddresed messages slip through.
Nope -- all the servers in the delivery chain are (pretty much) just
doing what the RFCs require them to do so SMTP Email works.
In looking at the properties of the offending messages, via OE,
MailWasher Pro, Thunderbird and my web mail sites, I've found that my
address sometimes shows up in the cc section but I haven't seen any BCC
section of these messages. Does this portion get stripped off of the
message?
Look, BCC is a red-herring, both here and in the other fork of this thread.
The RFCs _are_ the place to go to work out what is really happening, but the
poster who sent you to look at the RFCs sent you to the wrong place...
RFC 2822 section 3.6.7, and especially its discussion of the "Return-Path:"
field, is the only stuff of great relevance in RFC 2822. More important is
RFC 2821 as that deals with the mechanics of message _delivery_. (Note that,
depending on your mail client, you may not even be able to display the _full_
headers as described in RFC 2822. Also note that, depending on your Email
client or even server, you may not see a "Return-Path:" header but instead a
"From " header and in the past (I don't recall the MUA but think it was on a
VAX running VMS) I once even saw "Received-From:" instead of "Return-Path:".)
Anyway, the reason "your" spam is arriving despite apparently not having your
address in any of the (obvious) addressing headers is because of the way that
RFC 2821 defines delivery of SMTP Email. If you don't want to read the whole
RFC (probably advisable!) start with section 3.3 and pay special attention to
the relationship between the "MAIL FROM:" and "RCPT TO:" command and the
_actual message including all its standard, invariant (sending MUA-specified)
headers_. (A hint: the latter are all contained within the "DATA" part of the
transmission and thus have a _purely arbitrary_ relationship with the "MAIL
FROM:" and "RCPT TO:" delivery protocol commands.)
This feature is what allows various kinds of spoofing, allows for BCC
functionality, makes running mailing lists and such much easier, and probably
many other good features.
I hope this helps...