Mike Walsh said:
Read the hardware reviews at pcmag.com and pcworld.com
Download the manuals for the routers you are interested in to see if they
have the features you want.
Mike Walsh
West Palm Beach, Florida, U.S.A.
"Best" is a very elusive target.
Once you have particular components you are considering, you
might get some responses that you can use, either those pointing
out problems with your choice or suggestions for something
"better".
You seem to have a decent plan for the basics. (But the
wireless where you will have Gigabit over copper available
seems overdone.)
There are plenty of good switches available, especially if
you have the kind of budget your project implies. It will be
the switch that forms the main backbone for your setup. It
would be a good idea to get the most flexible switch you
can. It should have Auto MDI/MDIX on all ports. It should
support full-duplex on all ports. It should support Jumbo
Packets (up to 9K, at least). But, unlike a router, you want
the switch to be lean and simple in function, no added
"Features" that complicate its operation.
( You can find such a switch, even for cheapskates like
myself. I use a SMC "EZ Switch" SMC8508T, for my
much more modest home Gigabit LAN.)
A router can be implemented in a great many ways. To
include a Linux box, which could be more adaptable than
a hardware appliance. (You might be able to have it also
provide a NAS function for your LAN, for instance.)
Personally, I like to consider the router as just a device
to share a firewalled connection to the Internet through a
modem. For that you only need the one output to your
switch.
You should be able to plop down "Wireless Access
Points" in whatever pattern you need to cover the area
you mention, just by running them to your switch. There
could be places where a "Wireless Extender" would be
useful as well.
If you want suggestions for these "specific things' you
want", then you will have to spell them out.
Luck;
Ken