Yes you can, simply click the Tools menu, then Options, then Privacy tab and right-click
their display name in either the allow or block list. If the 'Delete' option *isn't* grayed
out, then they've removed you from their contact list. If it is grayed out, then you're
still on their list.
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Jonathan Kay
Microsoft MVP - Windows Messenger/MSN Messenger
Associate Expert http://www.microsoft.com/windowsxp/expertzone/
Messenger Resources - http://messenger.jonathankay.com