You asked this question but there is not really enough info to answer your
question "How do I know if it has infra red communication
and if it has where is it."
If the question was asked about the phone, look in the owner's manual for
the phone.
If it was about a desktop computer, most desktops don't come with infra-red
built into them. If the question is about a laptop, look on the sides,
front and back of the bottom case for a small smooth colored plastic spot.
This will be your infra-red port.
If you are trying to connect your mobile phone for data communications with
a laptop, there is probably a data cable that you could purchase for your
model phone that will connect to the USB or Serial port on a laptop
computer. You might try reading your phone manual or contacting the place
you purchased the phone for more info.