there is a silver bar/clip on the bottom of the chipset if the tower is
standing up - but that doesn't hold the heat sync on
I don't know what you mean above, but we might be able to
ignore this clip and focus on the next one.
--- there is also
a piece of metal running through the heat sync i believe helped to hold
it in place but i can't get it back the way it was - not sure if i bent
it or what -- my bad - i should have mentioned that before
Socket 7 heatsinks are held down with a clip quite similar
to (usually compatible with) the simplier one-point latching
clips on socket 370 or socket A.
I suspect that the "gel" you saw was merely dried up thermal
compound or thermal pad- it was not ever intended nor is a
safe way to try to hold on a heatsink.
Figure out how to bend the clip back to make it work, or
look aroud for another heatsink. Socket 7 CPUs don't get
very hot (relatively speaking) so any moderate sized (not a
tiny 1/2" tall 'sink like a Pentium 1 would use) 'sink
should suffice. You could, theoretically, epoxy the
heatsink onto the CPU but it seems the harder and least
desireable option, IMO.
If you were really desperate, you could probably take some
solid strand stripped copper wire, about 14 gauge, and wrap
it between the two opposite socket lugs to hold down the
'sink then twist the two ends together to increase the
tension. It's a fiddly way to get the job done and if at
all possible just try to bend clip back so it works.
Also note that if you visited an old mom-n-pop computer
shop, they may be throwing away old systems. Even if a
system didn't have a great heatsink in it, you might be able
to pull the clip off and reuse it on your present 'sink.
Some may not work so well but most socket 7 heatsink clips
were more similar than different.