There isn't a standard per se, but rather more popular trends on which
connector is used.
Some have a fan header that looks quite a bit like a motherboard fan
header, same pin-spacing, pin thickness/height, retention "nub", but
is only two pins instead of three.
Others have the same pin-spacing, pin diameter, but shorter pins and a
different retention more like a socket. This type is common on video
cards.
A third type uses thinner pins, shorter pins, more closely spaced
together, with a socket-style plug that's narrower and angled at the
bottom... a bit like old sound card I/O sockets (but not modern sound
card sockets).
Dave