That still didn't do it.  I am getting a grip on whats wrong but still not there.  I applied the fix from Kelly "restorealldisplaytabs" and found that upon checking the reegistry-part of fix didn't go in the registry.  Here is what didn't get copied to the registry
"DllName"=hex(2):25,00,53,00,79,00,73,00,74,00,65,00,6d,00,52,00,6f,00,6f,00,  74,00,25,00,5c,00,72,00,65,00,73,00,6f,00,75,00,72,00,63,00,65,00,73,00,5c,  00,54,00,68,00,65,00,6d,00,65,00,73,00,5c,00,6c,00,75,00,6e,00,61,00,5c,00,  6c,00,75,00,6e,00,61,00,2e,00,6d,00,73,00,73,00,74,00,79,00,6c,00,65,00,73,  00,00,0
I also noticed that the individual fixes for the tabs are a bit different but here is something interesting-when I start the 'puter in safe mode-all the tabs are there when you right click on properties.  I am using a Nvidea Geforce 2 MX 400 video card and that is giving me lots of problems.  It has a desk manager function that I think is responsible for this problem.  What I think is happening is when the Nvidea card starts-it calls up the file for the display properties without the tabs.  How do I fix this?  The only way I can get the card to work is by uninstalling the adapter and then letting windos find and reinstall it.  If I use the cd or the latest driver-device manager says it can't load driver