Hi again.. I found this thread from Sharon F.. but when I followed the
instructions.. it did not do as expected...
To restart Explorer, Not sure why I needed to restart Explorer, not having a
problem with explorer, just the desktop... I'm a little confused right now..
here are her instructions..
"I would close all open windows (including running programs). Then open a
command prompt window (Start> Run: type cmd and click OK). Leave that
window and task manager up. Then using Task Manager, end the Explorer
process. The desktop will disappear. Then use Task Manager's File> Run to
start explorer.exe again. The desktop will return."
when I got to the part about "ending explorer, the desktop will
disappear"... it did not disappear.. so couldn't follow through with the
rest of it.. The desktop stayed put during the whole thing.. hope I am
making myself clear...

Maybe I am not understanding what I was to do..
Rainy ps. didn't have anything to do with the registry.. sorry about that..
my memory is not all that good sometimes.. lol
Rainy, I must not have had enough coffee when I typed those directions.
"Ending Explorer in Task Manager" part is right. The desktop should
disappear. It may restart on its own - a definite flicker off and then
flicker back on - due to failsafes that reload the shell if it fails. But
most times it just disappears. Restart it using File> Run in Task Manager
and typing in explorer.exe
But having the cmd window open is only useful for typing commands - for
example, deleting files that refuse to delete from the Windows Explorer
file management interface. Since it ignores the presence of a cmd window,
you get the shell hooks for some file types out of the way and can perform
the delete without them interfering. Apparently my fingers took over for my
brain when I typed that part. Sorry for the confusion.
In regards to using this method as an attempt to load tray icons that
failed to show up with the initial startup, you may have mixed results with
this method. Some icons that didn't load may show up. However, there's a
down side. You may lose some that loaded the first try but don't have the
ability to reload a second time. Personally, I think log off/log on is the
best approach and least trouble.
For programs that don't behave well in the tray, consider disabling them
from running at startup. Make shortcuts for them and placing the shortcuts
into the quick launch toolbar. They'll still be only a click away. They
won't be adding "extra weight" to your startup axis.
If you'd like to research some other suggested workarounds for tray icons,
check out MVP Kelly Theriot's page here:
http://www.kellys-korner-xp.com/xp_n.htm
After the page comes up, scroll down to the section titled "Notification
Area."