The DAT filetype is used by many different applications with different
structuring of the content within. Would be far more helpful if you had
actually specified an example attachment file. Was it winmail.dat?
Tell your "friends" to stop composing RTF (rich-text format) e-mails in
Outlook. The only e-mail client that understands RTF is Outlook. Other
e-mail clients don't understand Microsoft's proprietary TNEF structure
(RTF also includes HTML format but Microsoft has blinders and sees RTF
as only referring to their proprietary TNEF structure). Not even
Microsoft's own Outlook Express understands RTF. Apparently that is not
what you are using as your e-mail client.
http://support.microsoft.com/kb/241538
http://support.microsoft.com/kb/290809
RTF (aka TNEF) should only be used by a sender using Outlook when they
can guarantee the recipient is also using Outlook. Also, RTF should
also be used between Outlook-using sender and recipient who are within
the same Exchange mail server organization (to prevent corruption of the
winmail.dat content).
Since this is ONLY an e-mail issue, would've been better for you to
inquire within a newsgroup that discusses your particular e-mail client.
Hard to tell what you got as a .dat attachment since you never gave the
full filename for the attachment. A .dat file might have only text
within it that you could see using Notepad. It might've been a
winmail.dat file used to carry the formatting information for an e-mail
composed using Microsoft's proprietary RTF structure. If you visit
http://filext.com/alphalist.php?extstart=^D, you'll see there are
several possible uses of the .dat extension of a filename.