Sorry for the late reply.
Unfortunately, I have never succeeded using DDE to control Acrobat from C#.
I tried a bit now, getting no errors whatsoever, everything runs, but
nothing happens.
It is really hard, to be honest.
Basically, you will need to use Windows API functions defined in user32.dll,
essentially DdeInitialize, DdeConnect, DdeCreateDataHandle,
DdeClientTransaction, and DdeUninitialize.
This example is C ++, but should give you a start:
http://www.codeproject.com/cpp/ReaderWrapper.asp
If you google a bit, you will find some VB examples of using DDE.
They might be a help as well.
The Acrobat DDE reference you can read about here(section "DDE Messages"):
http://partners.adobe.com/public/developer/en/acrobat/sdk/IACReference.pdf
DDE can be used to control both Acrobat and Acrobat Reader.
However, if you have the full Acrobat Version, then you can and should use
the COM API
instead, which is not available if only the Reader is installed on the
machine.
Finally, if you are out of success, you might consider bying something like
this:
http://www.pdfstore.com/details.asp?ProdID=703&fp
It is relatively cheap.
Hope this helps just a bit.
PS
And please, contact me if you do succeed!