I would suggest the Epox 8RDA3+. Doesn't have a fire wire, but is a stable
board for OC Barton 2500+ and has everything else. It does have active
cooling of the North Bridge, which is helpful if you want to go faster than
2.2 GHz.
I am running mine at 2.333 GHz, cool and stable.
Epox has a nicely automated BIOS update utility and there is a freeware
program called 8RDACore, where you can adjust CMOS settings directly from
windoze. In addition, you can configure the system to vary the settings
based on the CPU load or the temperature, which I find to be pretty useful.
Pete