"Supports DDR500" means the setting is in the BIOS. The
memory controller is inside the processor, so whether
it works or not, is a function of the stepping of processor
that you buy. Some processors work better than others,
when it comes to overclocking memory. (JEDEC only
officially recognizes DDR400, so AMD doesn't have to
design the circuit to run faster than that. DDR500
is considered overclocking, and overclocking
comes with no guarantees.)
On the A8N-SLI, Wesley at Anandtech got the FSB to
run at 255MHz, and ran 2 sticks of memory in dual
channel mode at 1:1. That is just slightly more than DDR500.
http://www.anandtech.com/mb/showdoc.aspx?i=2358&p=5
You should read that whole review, and see which company
makes the best overclocking boards. The DFI board seems
to do well, but reading accounts of that board in the
overclocking forums, you have to be very patient with
the BIOS, in order to remain in control of the board.
If you change too many settings in the DFI, it apparently
takes a lot of fiddling to get back to the level of
overclock you used to have. (If you wrote all the settings
on a scrap of paper, and just reentered all of them, it
likely would not POST.)
For more info, try private forums like:
xtremesystems.org, abxzone.com, forums.pcper.com
Paul