I've just started looking at SATA cards myself and didn't even know
the three companies you mentioned made them.
Any reason why you
don't have the Promise FastTrak S150SX4 on your list?
I suspect that he's looking at hardware RAID and not software RAID with
a boot ROM, which is what all the cheap RAID products provide.
FWIW, LSI Logic (formerly known as Mylex and AMI) also has a decent
hardware SATA RAID board out. As to which is "best", Mylex has been
doing RAID a long time at the high end of the market--they know their
stuff in that regard, but they're relatively new to ATA RAID. 3Ware has
been doing hardware-based ATA RAID longer than anybody else (Adaptec had
a "hardware accelerated" product earlier but it didn't have an onboard
processor) but they don't have the high-end corporate experience that
LSI/AMI/Mylex (Mylex was formerly a division of IBM) has. The Adaptec
and Intel products appear to be similar designs--not identical boards,
but the major components seem to be the same, so it's six of one half a
dozen of the other--Intel has historically bought their RAID boards
rather than making them in-house, so I'd call them kind of iffy.
Promise made one hardware RAID board, but the SATA models are all
software or software with hardware XOR engine and thus not in the same
market.
So in answer to the original question, right now if I was buying I'd
probably go with LSI, but with the caveat that none of the SATA RAID
boards have been on the market long enough to have any kind of track
record, so it's kind of a crapshoot.
http://www.promise.com/product/product_detail_eng.asp?productId=112&familyId=2
The best price I found for it is just under $100 including shipping.
https://www.buymicro.com/secure/default.cfm?itm_code=859621&src=4
At that price I might be better off buying an Asus P4C800-E MB (~$190)
which already has a Promise SATA controller on it.
Be careful with the onboard RAID--it's usually crippled in some
way--sometimes you can hack the BIOS to enable the full feature set but
that's something you shouldn't count on unless you know for sure that
somebody has done it successfully with the board that you are using.